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Choosing a wedding date

A wedding date is fixed long in advance, shared with everyone you know, and meant to last. This ranks every day in a window you choose against your own chart, explains what makes each one strong or weak, and says outright when a whole month is poor.

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Meant to last, which changes the reading

A wedding is the one occasion here where endurance matters as much as harmony, and the scoring reflects that: Venus for the marriage itself, Jupiter for its growth, and Saturn weighted as a positive presence rather than a hazard. Saturn is the principle of what holds, and a commitment intended to outlast the party is not well served by an entirely Venusian day with nothing structural in it.

This is the occasion with the strongest preference for a filling Moon anywhere in the scoring, for the same reason — tradition is emphatic that something intended to grow should begin while the Moon grows.

Search a season, not a day

Nobody chooses a wedding date by testing one day at a time. The useful question is which weekend in a six-month stretch is strongest, and that is what a pass answers: every day ranked, best first, with the five strongest explained in full.

Venues and families narrow the field before astrology gets a say. In practice this works best as a way of choosing between the three or four dates you can actually have — and of knowing, when a venue offers you a date, whether it is one to take.

It will tell you a month is bad

When the entire window is poor, you are told so instead of being shown its best day with a flattering score. That matters most here, because a wedding date is the hardest decision on this site to revisit once announced.

The limit, plainly: this reads timing. It has nothing to say about whether you should marry, and the ranking of a day is not a verdict on a marriage.

What the scoring weighs for wedding day

A binding commitment meant to last, so Saturn and Venus both matter. Avoids void Moon and retrograde Venus without exception.

Planets that matter most

  • ♀ Venus×1.6
  • ♃ Jupiter×1.3
  • ☽ Moon×1.2
  • ☉ Sun×1
  • ♄ Saturn×1

Points in your chart

  • ♀ Venus×1.6
  • ☉ Sun×1.2
  • ☽ Moon×1.2
  • AC Ascendant×1.1

A favoured day or planetary hour ruled by ♀ Venus, ♃ Jupiter adds a little more. The numbers are multipliers on each aspect found, not a score out of ten — they decide what counts, not what the answer is.

What it warns you about

  • Venus retrograde

    The oldest and firmest rule in this tradition for weddings, and as heavy a penalty as any applied anywhere in this scoring — matched only by Mercury retrograde for signing a contract. Venus turns retrograde for around six weeks roughly every eighteen months, and those weeks are worth knowing before you book.

  • A void-of-course Moon

    Penalised more severely for a wedding than for any other occasion. The Moon has perfected its last aspect before changing sign, which tradition holds barren for anything begun in it.

  • A waning Moon

    Counts against a wedding more than anywhere else here. Not a veto — a strong day with a waning Moon can still rank well — but it is a real weight.

Check a day for wedding day

One day at a time is free and holds nothing back. Your birth details are used to calculate your chart and are never stored. A pass searches a range and ranks every day in it.

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What are you planning?

A binding commitment meant to last, so Saturn and Venus both matter. Avoids void Moon and retrograde Venus without exception.

About you

Used to build your birth chart. Calculated, returned, and never stored.

Date of birth

Local clock time where you were born. If unknown, 12:00 is the usual stand-in — the Moon and the angles lose precision.

Needed for your Ascendant and Midheaven.

When might it happen?

Only worth setting if the event is in a different time zone from your birth place — it decides which local hours are scored, and the planetary hours from local sunrise.

Checking one day is free, in full — every aspect, the best hour, any warnings. A pass searches up to a full year and ranks every day.

Questions

Whose chart should the date be chosen from?
At present one person’s. A reading that satisfies both partners’ charts simultaneously is a different calculation and is planned rather than built — the honest answer today is that you would run it twice and compare.
How far ahead can I search?
The date report searches a full year at once, which suits a wedding better than the shorter passes. The one-year pass covers six months per search, and a free check covers any single day.
Is there something I can show a planner or my parents?
Yes — the date report includes a typeset PDF with the ranked days, your chart drawn, and the reasoning written out in plain words rather than symbols. It is the tier built for exactly this.
Does the ceremony time matter, or just the date?
Both, and the time is often the part still open once a venue is booked. Every day is scored at six hours and the strongest window is named, so a date you cannot change can still be used well.